i am already pregnant and don't want my baby to be adopted. i want to choose who my child goes to, so how do i go about becoming a surrogate mum?
Reply by Rayven
I think you have misunderstood exactly what surrogacy is. Surrogacy is where an unpregnant woman decides to carry the biological child of one, or both of a set of intended parents.
You cannot decide to become a surrogate mother when you are already pregnant. The baby you carry is the biological child of you and your partner.
You can, however, choose to give your child up for adoption. Speak with an adoption agency in your area, and they should be able to help you personally select the couple you would like to bless with a baby. But this is adoption, not surrogacy.
Best wishes!
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already pregnant. want to become a surrogate mum.
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Feb 19, 2011 Rating
haveing a baby by: charmaine
my name is charmaine iam 31 and iam desprate for a baby as my partner cant have cant have children and iwould afamily soif ther is a good lady how could and willing to have a baby for this would make my life complete to contact me my number is ***CONTACT INFORMATION REMOVED***
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Oct 21, 2010 Rating
Loving Couple would love to adopt your baby by: Cathleen
Im a 35 year old women who cant have children that is looking for a pregnant women preferrably a young women whom for any reasons cannot raise their child. My husband, 37 and I have been together for over 13 years and would love to adopt your baby. We own our home in central california and would love to hear from any generous women in california with this unfortunate situation. Your baby would be cared by 2 loving people and we would love to talk to you...
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Jul 20, 2010 Rating
Surrogate mum I am looking for a young woman that is pregnant by: Anonymous
Surroate mum I am looking for young women that are prenant and do have children with her that would be willing to let her self and her children be adopted into my and my wife home as will and become part of our family a long with her children as will, And stay on after the baby is born as a wet Nurse to the new born baby or babies. I and my wife both are white Caucasian I am sixty-seven years old and my wife is in her sixtys as will, I never have been a father as it stands I do not have a son to carry on my family name and whom I can leave my Estate to if I should die. I would to have a son to carry on my name my wife is not able to bar a child so I have desided to hire a woman or women to be surroate mothers to have a child for me and if need to be done adopt the woman or women and make them part of my family and the women that do have a baby or babies for me to stay on as Wet nurse to breastfeet the new born baby or babies and to help to being the baby or babies up. I am willing to pay the surrogate mother for this all to be done. If You are willing to do this you can get a hold of me by my Email Address which is **CONTACT INFORMATION REMOVED** only if you are wiulling to go on this deal of what I am talking about, Oh yes if you do know of other women that are in the same way you are doing I am willing to take on as many as four women to do the same thing as being surrogate mothers they can have children with them and I will take all of them in on the same matter as adoption and make them all aprt of my family as will.FUSION
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Jun 26, 2010 Rating
Where are you located? by: Anonymous
Hi I am from Pennsylvania, I am 26 years old and single. I have been unable to become pregnant due to small tubes and uterus. Would you possibly willing to consider me? If so please email me at **CONTACT INFORMATION REMOVED**. I would be extremely grateful to any response. Thank you.
Hi My name is Jessica. I live in Australia. I am near 50, have a partner of 24 years and two grown step-sons. I wanted to have my own child but it didn't work out that way - I lost a couple of pregnancies. Now heading into menopause, I have been looking for a surrogate mother, but have no viable eggs, but thought instead I would start looking for someone who was pregnant but could not for some reason bring up the child. I am wondering roughly how old you are, and if you could share what your reasons might be, and if you would be willing to talk further. I would like to adopt the child and would like to be somewhat sure the person would not change their mind, but I am a mature person,I know this matters are complex,I have a lot of love to give, live on the Gold Coast which is a nice clean environment, I am a writer and editor with my own small business. We are kind people and have a nice extended family, my brother and sister-in-law live close with two young girls. You can contact me on **CONTACT INFORMATION REMOVED**
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Apr 10, 2010 Rating
For Real? by: Felicia
1st off where are you located? What is your nature? What are you made of? I am looking to find a surrogate mother for myself and my fiance! I am only 19 i know but me and my finace have been together for like 4+ years! We have had 3 misscarriages! First one was twins, (that counts as 2)I was 17. Every since then we have been trying./ We concieved again and the due date was feb. 25 2010 and lost it in november! The twins were due Febuary 16, 2009! This is very hard for me! We are both white in color! No COlor doesn't matter? Just Curious! No i am not looking at you as just the pven, looking at you hpw ever you waNT TO BE LOOKED AT. But WE will be Mommy & Daddy! You are more than welcome to be Aunty or God Mother! Or something in that nature if you would like! We have been saving since may 08*(when i found out i was pregnant with the twins)* So our fund has money in it for the child! We live in Parrottsville Tennessee! * in the mountians in the country feel free to call me at **CONTACT INFORMATION REMOVED** so we can talk name is Felicia Thank You! When is your due date? Again i am only 19, but i know what i want! I am made to be a mommmmy! Thats what God Put me here to be is a mommy! I just can't have children they are fixing to takemy female organs out due to all the errors with it! I was adopted! So my birth mother was drugged and try to misscarry me so she messed up my insides so no life creation for me! PLEASE HELP ME!! I will compensate! THANK YOU
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