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My wife wants to become a surrogate mother, but I have concerns
Hello,
My wife keeps talking to me about wanting to be a surrogate mom. I don't know how to reply. I dont know what to say. Just a brief history ...
How do you get started in surrogacy?
i AM INTERESTED IN BECOMING A SURROGATE MOTHER BUT I DONT KNOW WHERE TO START! DO YOU LOOK FOR PEOPLE AND HOW? OR DO THEY LOOK FOR YOU. WHAT ARE SOME GOOD ...
How can I find a surrogate mother in the UK?
Me and my partner are looking for a surrogate in the UK, but unfortunately we are finding it hard here in the UK. It seems to be much easier in the US....
What is the best way to tell your own children about surrogacy?
I'm in the early stages of IVF to be a gestational carrier and I was just wondering if you had any suggestions on how I can try and explain what I'm doing ...
Why is a surrogate's financial status anyone's business??
I just read another post in which you state that a surrogate declaring bankruptcy was a nightmare situation.
Would you care to elaborate a little on ...
How does insurance for a surrogate baby work?
Ok, I understand that the surrogates insurance pays for her, but what about the baby? Do we need to get some special insurance for when the baby is born,...
best surrogacy center & extra concerns
any surrogacy centers that are reliable and can be trusted?
how long after the birth process will the baby separate from the surrogate mom and be given ...
how can I be sure that my surrogate will take good care of her self and my babay?
just wandering on how are the parents able to now for sure that the surrogate mother they've choose is careful with her body,no drugs, takes vitamins, etc?...
How does it feel giving up a surrogate baby?
How does it really feel giving up a surrogate baby? Is it hard? I know I want to do this, but I'm really worried that I will have a hard time when it ...
What is the worst part in your opinion?
Surrogacy seems so wonderfull by all who talk about it. But I want to know about the Con's to it because it cant be perfect. So what are the bad things?...
A friend being a surrogate?
I recently discovered that i cant have children. I wondered if my best friend, as long as she's willing, would be a gestational surrogate for me. She'll ...
How bad are the shots??
I have decided to become a Gestational Surrogate and in the final stages of the application process. I keep hearing about all the medication and shots ...
Gestational Carrier...Should She Hold the Baby?
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Do you think it is a good idea that the Gestational Carrier holds the baby after it is born, or just have a clean break?. I dont want to sound mean ...
Maternity Advantage Insurance Info
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Our Surrgate is 7 mths pregnant and lost her insurance. Have your heard of Maternity advantage does it really help. I am nervous to pay for it if it ...
My husband is not supportive of surrogacy...should I do it anyways?
I don't think he really thinks I will go through with it; becoming a surrogate mother. I've been talking about surrogacy for about six months now, and ...
How does a surrogate get pregnant?
I'm kinda nervous about asking this. I mean no disrespect. But how exactly does a surrogate get pregnant? Does she, um, well, "do it" with the dad? And ...
surrogate questions?
my wife and i are considering our options to start our family. i love kids and knew when i got into the relationship that she did not want to go through ...
What happens next?
I am going to be a gestational surrogate for my brother and his wife. I have a feeling my brother is going to want to micro-manage my life (which I am ...
Why is surrogacy so expensive?
Hia.
We're looking into surrogacy as an option for our family as we have had 4 miscarriages in the last 3 years. But we running into a wall with the ...
Where do we find a surrogate please?
After 3 IUI and 2 IVF's the doctor says it is surrogacy time now. We have been married for 10 years and we have always wanted children. Sadly, it has not ...
WHY can't women who have never been pregnat before become a surrogate?
Ok, I've read it all and I know that women who are childless cannot become a surrogate mother, but WHY is that the case??!!
Some of us just want to ...
why do agencies require a serogate to not be on goverment assistance?
why do the agencies I'm looking at say that they don't want serogates to be on government assistance? wouldnt it be better because then they would be able ...
Most important thing to do when matching?
Whats the most important thing you need to remember when you are matching for a surrogacy? We are in our early 40's, professionals, looking for a surrogate ...
What gifts would surrogate appreciate?
We have a wonderful surrogate carrying our twins. She has no biological ties to babies. She is in week 19/20. I would like to begin giving her gifts ...
About intended parents not paying for medical bills
Hi. You said on your page about things that go bad in surrogacy that it is common that intended parents don't pay for all the surrogate's medical bills ...
How old should you be for surrogacy?
So I was thinking of doing surrogacy. I am 17 right now, but I have two children of my own. They were born healthy and I did have a c-section both times,...
Can you be a surrogate with your tubes tied?
I was wondering if it is possible to be a surrogate mother if you had your tubes tied? I did that after my last pregnancy. Can I still do surrogacy? Thanks....
Can u be a surrogate if you have had your tubes tied and c-section?
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I had my tubes tied, And all of my 3 children were born by c- section, could I still be a surrogate? And how long would I have to wait before I could Be?...
Our friend wants to be our surrogate
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We have a friend that has offered to be our surrogate. She and her family live in a surrogacy friendly state. We do not. How do we go about getting started?...
Why don't intended mothers turn to surrogacy if they are afraid of carrying a baby or giving birth to a baby?
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On your website it reads, "Contrary to what some people may believe, intended mothers do not turn to surrogacy because they don't want to or are afraid ...
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