I know all agencies (as far as I know) require you to have at least one child of your own to become a surrogate. Do you know if, independently, most prospective parents require that as well? My husband and I are very happily married and do not want children- however, I would love to give that gift to a couple who does want children.
Also, in that case, is there a test that they run to make sure you are capable of having children. I'm sure I am but since I have not had children of my own, there's no way to know 100 percent that my eggs are, well, good, i guess?
Another question- I am overweight, are their certain requirements health-wise for surrogates. I know they want to know about your medical history, and mine is completely clean, but I fear my weight issues will keep anyone from wanting me as a surrogate even if I did have my own children.
Reply by Rayven Shelby,
Currently, there are not any definitive tests to determine whether someone is capable of having children. Only time will tell.
And its not just the agencies that want you to have had at least one child of your own; its the clinics too, and yes, the intended parents.
As to the weight issue, there are plenty of "fluffy" surrogates. It really depends on how much overweight you are. If we're talking 30-50 pounds, you would probably still qualify (assuming you had had a child) but if we're talking 100+ lbs, then you may have more trouble. Obesity is a cause of infertility.
