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hi im a single man who wants a baby is it posible to do surrogacy?

by alexander
(edinburgh)

hi im a single man who wants a baby what age do you have to be and do i have to have a partner

Reply by Rayven

Alexander,

Laws regarding surrogacy vary state by state within the United States, and by country abroad.

In the United States, in several states such as California, it is entirely possible to become a single father through gestational or traditional surrogacy. You do not need a partner, and do not need to be any specific age, just a legal adult.

Best wishes!

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Sep 14, 2014
I want to give you the chance to have a baby NEW
by: Morgan B

I am a 19 I graduated high school early I got my CNA degree while I was in high school. I have enjoyed taking care of elderly but what I really want to do is help a family bring another member into there family. I have thought about doing this for years now. I do not smoke I do not drink. I would be more than willing to follow any guide lines while pregnant. I do not have any kids of my own but I grew up with a big family 5 sisters one brother. I love kids and would love to help you.

Sep 14, 2014
I want to give you the chance to have a baby NEW
by: Morgan B

I am a 19 I graduated high school early I got my CNA degree while I was in high school. I have enjoyed taking care of elderly but what I really want to do is help a family bring another member into there family. I have thought about doing this for years now. I do not smoke I do not drink. I would be more than willing to follow any guide lines while pregnant. I do not have any kids of my own but I grew up with a big family 5 sisters one brother. I love kids and would love to help you.

Jun 05, 2014
:)
by: Anonymous

I feel a little weird posting something on here but I am a 23year old female who has a gorgeous girl of my own, she is my world!! Having a child young has completely changed my priorities but sadly it have no desire to raise another
However I would absolutely love to have the opportunity to be pregnant again and actually be able to enjoy it! So here is where I offer my womb, I have no preferences but would love to be able to help out someone who is maybe gay, or single and would rather someone who has no other children
I live in New Zealand (you might need to google search it hahahha) so don't know about all the individual laws in each country, so don't even know if it is possible
I'd love photos and updates but have no desire for involvement and a holiday to deliver you your baby would be mint ought be illegal, kinda sounds like payment but we will see what happens)

Feb 11, 2014
Wanting a baby
by: PeTe

I am 36 years old man. I been wanting a child of my own to raise. I just want someone to have my child with out any strings attach. More or less like a surrogate .

Nov 17, 2013
Single mom who met the love of her life
by: Rachel

Hi, I am a single mother of two kids,15 & 13. 5years ago I met the man I was meant to be with,shortly after we met I found out I had cervical cancer n had a hysterectomy. He wants a child more than anything, We have broken up over this multiple times,he loves me and wants to be with me but it is so hard for him knowing we will never have a child. I told him to go find someone to have a baby with,i don't want to be selfish. We both have tried other relationships,epic fail! We are meant for eachother we just need someone to carry our baby. I still produce eggs,i just can't carry a baby. Any help or info would be appreciated.

Nov 06, 2013
my own child wanted
by: kevin

hi there i am 28 years off age am male an i am looking for a very kind lady to help me have my dreams come true buy becoming a surrogacy mum for me i am in the uk so please get back to me thank you

Oct 11, 2013
New baby, new heart
by: Anonymous

I whish I hadn't waited to get my ducks in a row before having children. The career I put my effort into so I'd be prepared for children fell apart because of government changes and find myself having a hard time starting over, but many families go through hard times and have to start over. Bad things happen and now I'm 34. I'm beginning to hear awful things like "I always thought you'd be a wonderful Mom. I guess that'll never happen" and beginning to feel the segregation as my peers get older. Facebook and seeing children usually is a pleasant thing, but lately I feel myself thinking about wasted time and my ticking clock. I guess a relative did a number on me when my career was falling apart and she took out the hard time she was going through on me to make herself feel powerful for awhile. I used to be able to brush these things off by thinking "I feel sorry for them because they must be suffering", but she did a number on me while I was going through the hardest time of my life and I haven't been able to recover the things I lost back. She shouted "You're nothing. You're not a mother. You have no career. No friends" I defended myself saying "Im not ready and preparing myself. Most of the things she said were lies at the time or her whishes, but unfortunately what she said happened and it's been hard to recuperate despite having grown up with her because most of my defenses are down. When I see children, I feel like my heart has healed and it's like seeing the world in a new way and its interesting again. I was hoping to have kids by 27 and now Im having trouble not feeling heart broken when I have kids. My older sister is very kind, but said something unsettling like "It gets easier after menopause" as if she had decided Im never having kids and should wait 15 years. I think I used to be wiser before this trauma, but waiting till you're ready is not always the best answer. Life can fall apart and all that preparation while saying "Im not ready" can go to waste.

Apr 17, 2013
Surrogacy is NOT a dating service!
by: Rayven from Information on Surrogacy

Lately I have noticed the comments on this thread going from looking for a traditional or gestational surrogate mother to finding a woman to have a baby with. This is a SURROGACY website, not a dating service. There is NO sexual contact in surrogacy, nor are there any parental rights granted to a surrogate mother.

If you are looking for a traditional or gestational surrogate mother, please place an ad in our FREE classified ads board.

If you have a question pertaining to surrogacy for single men or women, or a comment for the original poster of this question, please post it here.

But if you are looking to "have a baby" with someone, please find a different website to discuss this with. That is not the intent of this website and such posts will be deleted.

Sorry to be so "mean" about this, but we really need to keep to the purpose of this website here.

Thanks so much!

~Rayven

Feb 25, 2013
23 with a goal I've never let go of.
by: Wanting a child.

Since I was 18 I had planned on having a child by the time I was 25. When my high school sweetheart and I did not end up working out I've seen the years slipping by. I have still not lost sight of this goal or passion, however I'm considering surrogacy to fulfill my dream. I've been trying to get financially stable so by 25 I can go through with it. I'm just not sure where to start.

Jan 26, 2013
I want a child of my own with no strings attatched
by: Anonymous

I'm 44yr guy, divorced. I have a 3yr old daughter that lives with her mother and I have every other weekend visitation until she starts school. My ex is very difficult and fights with co-parenting. I still hang in there and value every second I have to spend with my daughter. But I would like to have another child of my own, one that I can spend every day with and raise without all the drama that comes along with a wife, exwife or someone that just wants another child and expects child support. I want to have a child to raise as my own, to love and support with no strings to another person. If you are a woman that already has your own children and would like to talk about this pleasse respond.

Jan 18, 2013
I really want to help some to have a child, but i dont want to bea Mum..
by: Jess.aussie

Hi im 19 and iv alwaes dreamed of being a surrogate, as im still young and i havent had any children before it makes it impossible for my dream to come true.. all i want is to be able to give a family/ someone that special wounderful gift of a child but i would love the experience but i do not want to be a mother yet

Nov 09, 2012
I want a baby too...
by: Natasha

I'd love to have a baby, but I don't want a baby from just a random sperm donor. I'd love to find a man that was deeply wanting to be a father. Someone who would love and support his baby.

Message from Moderator

What you are looking for is in no way, shape, or form, surrogacy. This website is not a dating or matching website.

Oct 16, 2012
hi im a single man who wants a baby
by: gordon

I wish u the best luck brittany. I havent found anyone to do it for me and my wife hopefully u will find someone

Oct 16, 2012
Want to have another baby, just don't want a cheating man in my life.
by: Brittany

Ok, I'm 23 I have have 2 children of my own, divorced and in the army. I'm very attractive this I know for a fact. Just have not found the one that will be willing to give me a child, with no relationship attached other than friendship. My ex husband cheated on me now I have to share parenting with him. I miss the bond a mother should have. And it's not far that I have to share! Please guys if your good looking, willing to have a child together and be civil about it. Then get ahold of me. Or maybe just be a sperm donor for a good cause.

Message from Moderator

Again, what you are looking for is NOT surrogacy. You are looking for co-parenting. THis site does not address co-parenting. Do a google search.

Sep 08, 2012
Thank you.
by: Emilyn from Information on Surrogacy

I hope this helps. Thank you for this thoughtful entry.Please come back and post again sometime, or check out our forums.

Aug 11, 2012
trying to find someone to have me and my wife a baby
by: gordon

Looking for a nice woman to have a baby for me and my wife. She had to have a hysterectomy three years agi and we never got the chance to have a baby. We would like to raise it but i want to father it.

Jun 18, 2012
How can I help
by: mommy2one

I am 33 a mother one. I lost my fiancee 2.5 years ago and I too long to have another child. I loved being pregnant. I know that I would love my daughter to have a sibling but am not looking for a relationship. I know I would love to give someone the opportunity to enjoy all that parenthood has to offer I just don't know how I feel about being non existent in the situation after the fact. There are so many men out there who bail on parental responsibilities so it is great to see men who want children to raise and love. I set up an email if there are any serious men out there. I live in NY.

**MESSAGE FROM MODERATOR**

What you are describing is NOT surrogacy, it is co-parenting. This website does not pertain to co-parenting. Please google "co-parenting" to find websites that will meet your needs. Best wishes to you.

May 22, 2012
Single man wanting to have a baby
by: Chris

I am a 41 year old white male, 6'5", lt. brown hair, cut short, blue eyes, good looking, single, never been married, and I want a child of my own if I never meet a woman to marry. I can give you a second child or more if you want some too; I would prefer to raise my own son, as most men want a son but would love to have a daughter as well; many men just want to teach their own son to be a man and do guy things with throughout life and carry on the line, etc. I am not asking a potential mother to be out of the child's life, but if you don't want to be involved, you don't have to be. I have a large and supportive family who would help to love and raise the child. I am well-educated with a degree in psychology and almost another degree in computer science. I was so focused on school and work in earlier years that I didn't date as much as I probably should have, or those that I dated weren't ones I would want to be with long-term. So I never took the marriage plunge and I was always careful not to get someone pregnant if I didn't want to be with them or couldn't afford a child at the time. I want to have a child before I get too old. I live in the south, in Alabama, but am planning to soon move to Orlando, FL, for work at a drug rehab or perhaps even Walt Disney World. I am not wealthy but can take care of myself well and am financially stable. I wouldn't mind finding someone who is looking for a friendship/partner even if they don't want a marriage or LTR to have kids together and raise them together; we could live together or nearby each other and both be in the child/children's lives. Let me know if this is something you are interested in. I am more into white, hispanic/latino native american, or pacific islander women; I am not interested in black or asian women; not that I'm racist, they just don't turn me on. I would rather a natural pregnancy but will consider artificial insemination.

**MESSAGE FROM MODERATOR**
Normally, I would delete this comment completely, but I wanted to leave it here as an example of what surrogacy IS NOT. This man is looking for a co-parenting situation, which is where two people who are not romantically involved get together to raise a child. That is not surrogacy.

A surrogate mother DOES NOT raise the child she carries, no matter if that child is a boy or a girl.

A surrogate mother DOES NOT have sex with the intended father. Never. Not under ANY circumstance whatsoever.


Mar 29, 2012
I want a baby with some body using surrogate mothers
by: Anonymous

Any ideas that you all might have? I do have my own sperm!

Feb 26, 2012
i want a son
by: Anonymous

Well I always wanted to have a son it is my biggest desire!
I want to become a single father but what can i do?

Feb 25, 2012
I want children more than anything.
by: Cyleste

Im 38female frm south africa have already 4kids, i would love to be a surrogate to any one who wants kids.

Feb 12, 2012
I would love to have another baby
by: Anonymous

I am looking for a single man to have a baby with. I am a great mother of 2 & am wanting another but haven@t found anyone to have 1 with can any1 help

Message from Moderator
This website is NOT a forum for co-parenting. If you are looking to be a mother to a child and share that child with someone else, you have come to the WRONG place. There are websites on co-parenting; do a Google search.

Surrogacy means that once you give birth to the child, you do not have parental rights to that child; the intended parent(s) parents the child completely.

Jan 18, 2012
Want children more than anything.
by: Anonymous

Hi I am a gay male who wants to have children more than anything, I want to be able to look at my child and know I helped to create such a beautiful being. I am currently a CNA and in nursing school. I don't know any girls willing to have a child for me because most have husbands or do not believe in gay parenting. I have plenty of money to care for a child especially when I finish school. But even when I am a RN and make great money I don't see how any single gay man can afford 40,000 - 120,000 for surrogate agencies. So what am I to do, because I know I am meant to be an amazing father.

Dec 18, 2011
Thank You!
by: Emilyn from Information on Surrogacy

Great question.Thanks for being a valued member of the surrogacy community.Make sure you stay in touch on our surrogacy forums.

Nov 23, 2011
35 year old single male seeking traditional surrogate mother
by: Shaun

Hi, I am looking for a traditional surrogate mother who can produce a child for me. I did my due diligence in trying to find a wife, but was unsuccessful, and have come to opt for this approach. I perfer to opt for a traditional means of insemination also.

**Message from Moderator**
Typically, I delete this sort of comment, one which is looking for sex. But today, I have decided to let it sit as a reminder of what NOT to respond to in surrogacy.

The sad fact of the matter is, many people are involved in surrogacy who are either unbelievably clueless, or out for something unethical, whether that is to try and steal money or to try to get their jollies off.

We'll assume this poster is just clueless.

Ladies and gentlemen, sex is never, I repeat never, ever, under any circumstances, involved in any sort of surrogacy. If you are looking to become a traditional surrogate mother, it is done via artificial insemination.

Never respond to these types of people. Don't email them setting them straight, or asking for clarification, or sharing your opinion. Its not worth the hassle.

Stay safe. Learn from other's mistakes.

Nov 12, 2011
wanting a baby of my own
by: Anonymous

Hi, I am a single straight man and I would like to have a baby of my own can someone please help me or guide me to be able to start this I really would like to hear from someone asap.

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Nov 10, 2011
Single gay man desperately wanting children
by: Anonymous

I am a single gay man 29 years old, I have been in relationships now for 9 years in which have now come to an end and I find myself single again... I really want to have kids and find things are very difficult to explain to people and people tend to think its silly and totally don't understand this empty feeling that I want to be a dad soo badly, I'd really like some helpful information on this and perhaps tower with a surrogate and maybe take the correct steps in the right direction instead of reading over and over again what can only be described as endless reading on surogacy
Please can someone help

Thomas

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Aug 18, 2011
SURROGACY
by: June

Hi Alexander, I am also considering surrogacy. Researching India just now. Be nice to chat.

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Jul 27, 2011
there is a huge demand for single male both gay and straight wanting to become dads.
by: Anonymous

There is a huge demand for single males both gay and straight wanting to become dads. but without the hassle of maintaining a relationship and sharing custody.
A large number of gay males and females are marrying as straight in order to have kids. Once they have their kids they then come out as gay to become true to themselves and have children in the mix.
For single straight men it is a similar problem. My good friend has been marrying women with the hope of getting children but his desperation is like a green light to every gold digger, and bullying violent women in the neighbourhood. He has now given up on marriage/relationships and he is finding it difficult to even discuss the fact he as a single male divorcee wants to have a family. Adoption agencies do not look favourable on single males as prospective parents....it is still seen as strange or unnatural, especially by agencies with a religious backing/funding.
I will send him a link to your website and mention the idea the next time he brings up the issue.
thanks.

Jun 19, 2011
I too want a kid
by: Anonymous

I too am now single. No kids and want a baby. Am solvent and can pay costs. What do I do?

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Jun 15, 2011
I'm a single man and I want a baby.
by: Jamie

I'm a single man and I've always wanted a baby, but I've never really had much look with women. Even if I did have a partner and we had a baby, it would always worry me if one day we split up and I didn't get to see my kid much again. I'm just wondering if theres anyway I could have a baby my self using a surrogate mother, and how would I go about it. Any help would be deeply appreciated.

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May 28, 2011
Surrogate mother wanted.
by: Anonymous

Hi I'm a single man, I want a baby of my own. I'm looking for a surrogate mother. Anyone interested? Please contact me.

Apr 18, 2011
single34m
by: wesley

im single 34 guy looking to have a couple of kids

Apr 10, 2011
Surrogacy is NOT a Dating Service!
by: Rayven from Information on Surrogacy

Lately I have noticed the comments on this thread going from looking for a traditional or gestational surrogate mother to finding a woman to have a baby with. This is a SURROGACY website, not a dating service. There is NO sexual contact in surrogacy, nor are there any parental rights granted to a surrogate mother.

If you are looking for a traditional or gestational surrogate mother, please place an ad in our FREE classified ads board.

If you have a question pertaining to surrogacy for single men or women, or a comment for the original poster of this question, please post it here.

But if you are looking to "have a baby" with someone, please find a different website to discuss this with. That is not the intent of this website and such posts will be deleted.

Sorry to be so "mean" about this, but we really need to keep to the purpose of this website here.

Thanks so much!

~Rayven

Apr 10, 2011
single lady
by: JuicyJuice

Clarence P

you shouldn't be looking for any random girl. get to kno the female first then see how that goes. cause u also want a healthy family. you sound like a nice guy.

Feb 22, 2011
RE: I want to give a man the gift of life.
by: 47 year old male considering Indian Surrogacy

Dear anonymous,
Would you be interested in having a conversation?

Feb 22, 2011
I want to give a man the gift of life.
by: Anonymous

I want to have a baby for someone. Not interested in custody

Jan 26, 2011
want a baby/need a baby!!!!!!!!!!
by: Anonymous

im a 32 year old single heterosexual male who wants a baby of my own,
i have been in a 10 year relationship and now im single i suddenly realise
that time is'nt on my side.
i have always been good with kids wether family or not,
if there is ANYONE that can point me in the right direction i would be so
grateful. P.S. phone numbers/e-mail addresses/organisations, all welcome.

Jan 26, 2011
I want a baby so bad!
by: Babycrazed

Hey just came across this site and I really want a baby also but i have no one to have a child with. I live in Chicago and don't know where to begin looking for one. Its kinda hard and I'm really nervous looking for this online but where else can i go?
**CONTACT INFORMATION REMOVED** if your interested

***CONTACT INFORMATION REMOVED***

Note from Rayven: Please post a free ad at our surrogacy classified ads board.

Jan 02, 2011
47 year old male considering Indian Surrogacy
by: Anonymous

I had not given much though to shared custody once I began looking into surrogacy but now that you mention it I would be interested in considering that option as well.

Nov 07, 2010
With or Without Mother
by: Anonymous

Are you looking to be a single parent only or do want to share custody?

Oct 31, 2010
47 year old male considering Indian Surrogacy
by: Anonymous

Hey all! I'm a single, 47-year-old male who would still like to have a child or two but am finding the "traditional" routes to be dwindling a tad. I have been doing some reading on surrogacy through the Indian programs and am curious as to whether any others have had any experience with that. Would love to hear of any experience had, either good or bad!

Aug 25, 2010
Looking for a woman to have kids with....
by: Anonymous

I'm 41 year old married man. After seven years of marriage she told me she is not interested in having kids.
I am looking for a woman who would be interested in gestational surrogacy and to keep a nice and ongoing relation with the mother so the child will have a mother too. I will raise the child and will pay for all the expenses, woman need not worry about about child support or anything else.
You must pass background and drug test.
I live in Champaign, IL.

***CONTACT INFORMATION REMOVED***

Note from Rayven: Please post a free ad at our surrogacy classified ads board.

Jul 29, 2010
hi
by: Anonymous

im looking to wher dose this person live

May 19, 2010
I am saving up for this.
by: Anonymous

I am straight single 43 old male. I am saving up to be able to afford to have a baby by surrogacy. I'd love to be able to chat about this with like minded people.

Apr 08, 2010
Thank you
by: Anonymous

Im a 32 year old male who feels exactly the samem i have all the right qualities in my life to be able to be a fantastic father but I too also would be looking for a woman to help me achieve my one and only goal in life that, i feel would make my life complete.

Its so hard getting the information for single men to be fathers that i am running out of avenues to follow...

I hope it works out for you in the future.

Good luck!!!

Feb 22, 2010
single dad looking for surrogate mum
by: Anonymous

hi i am a 28 year old single guy and looking for a healthy woman to carry my child for me, if there is any one intrested in doing this for me then please leave a replie to this message

Feb 02, 2010
If only
by: Anonymous

Oh my goodness... if only I could find a guy to have a baby with!

Oct 14, 2009
It happens a lot!
by: Rayven from Information on Surrogacy

Many single dads go the surrogacy route! You are not alone!!

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