Information on Surrogacy.

Are you looking into surrogacy as an option to grow your family?

Are you interested in learning how to become a surrogate mother? You've come to the right place to gather free information on surrogacy, and to learn all about surrogate babies.

My name is Rayven Perkins.

I am a two-time gestational surrogate mother, having delivered a set of twins as well as a singleton baby to terrific intended parents.

I have been involved in the surrogacy community for more than three years.

Despite the fact that the surrogacy community is worldwide, and growing, it is still a relatively small, close knit community.

Throughout this website you may see stop signs. These indicate an action you should take to receive more information in order to meet your needs in surrogacy. They are intended to help you, and assist you. So take a moment to stop!

I have created this site to help families everywhere bring surrogate babies into the world. I want to help women learn how to become a surrogate, as well as provide information on surrogacy for all those who are interested in it.

It is my intention that this site help those new to the surrogacy world, both surrogate carriers and intended parents, understand the lengthy and sometimes complicated process of traditional surrogacy and gestational surrogacy, and to get information on surrogacy. There is even information here for egg donors and those wishing to learn how to become a surrogate.

Surrogacy is an emotional whirlwind, for everyone involved. Arguments happen, feelings are hurt, and things do go wrong. It is important that everyone looking into this process understands what can happen and what needs to be done in a bad situation.

Most surrogate mothers will tell you that they are not involved with surrogacy because there is compensation involved.

In fact, most surrogates would be offended by the mere mention of money.

But the truth is, most surrogates would be unable to be a surrogate without financial incentive.

This site is not intended to say whether or not money should be a factor in surrogacy, but it will talk about money and compensation in a clear, no-nonsense way.


If, however, you have arrived at this site because the promises of financial reward have drawn you to surrogacy, I'm afraid you are in for a rude awakening.

Surrogacy is first and foremost about sacrifice, both for the surrogate mother and the intended mother. These two women sacrifice physically and emotionally for a common goal; to bring surrogate babies into the world.

Surrogacy is not something that is right for everyone, be they potential surrogate mothers or intended parents.

For many, the emotions involved in this process are simply too overwhelming.

Simply recognizing this fact goes a long way towards providing information on surrogacy.

Surrogacy is not easy.

It is a rough and extremely time consuming road to follow, but the rewards are wonderful.

At the end of the road is a beautiful child, or twin surrogate babies, that many people have helped into the world.


Best wishes on your surrogacy or infertility road.

May you be blessed with healthy children.